Month: September 2009
I’m Playing…
EVE Online and Dungeons and Dragons Online.
You have to buy EVE and pay a monthly fee to play it. However, DDO is completely free and a lot of fun. You should go download it. David, I’m looking at you. You should go download. You, David.
It seems we aren’t playing wow anymore. I’m not playing anything by myself so I go where my/the boys go.
Your Vote Is Needed
Jesse: Wat
Karen: ok
Jesse: The way I last heard the song
Karen: so you hear the artist’s voice and the background music?
Jesse: Yep
Karen: wow
Jesse: Lol
Karen: when you didn’t answer right away I asked my mom and she said she hears the song in her voice, like me
Jesse: Nuts both of you lol
Karen: Pat currently has “my humps” being sung by Frank Sinatra with a 5 piece band backup, heavy on the trumpet, stuck in his head
Work hours and Money Woes
I had a shitty day today. Today I found out I’m not eligible for short term disability coverage at work. Why? Not enough hours worked on a weekly average. Why? Well there a two parts to this. Part A, yes I accept blame I’ve gone home early a few too many times. Part B, most of those weeks I wasn’t scheduled for the required 37.5 hours to begin with. Back when I was required to work 40hrs a week I had a drive to get it done. I had a job and benefits to keep. But I’m no longer salary, I’m hourly and I have no hour requirement. So now I’m being scheduled anywhere from 25-35 hours a week. Meanwhile my drive is broken. My boss came to me awhile back about a confidence problem I seem to have at work. I’m not sure how it happened but it’s true. A year ago I thought I was the shit and everyone knew it. That was my lab and I ran it efficiently and happily. Now everything is falling apart. I think my mental health has a part in that. But my mental health also feeds off the atmosphere around me. Meaning, if others for whatever reason show lack of confidence, I lose my confidence.
I’d give anything to go back a year into time and start over.
I’d fight like tooth and nail to keep my 40hrs a week when they started slipping.
I’d never have gone into the hospital. I know I needed hospitalized, I also knew we couldn’t afford for me to do it right. I needed something more long term than the 5 days I got. Meanwhile I was out of work for two weeks (I was ready to go back after a week, my boss kept me out the second week.) and those two weeks are still kicking out asses. We are currently dealing with 300$ electric bills in part because we missed two months worth of electric that we are paying back over the next few months. Why 2 months? Well the first was because we missed a round of bills while I was hospitalized. The second was us paying catchup on everything else so electric got screwed over twice.
I’m trying really hard to keep my eye on the light at the end of the tunnel. Christmas season is coming up and I’ll be working 40-50 hours a week, where I’ll be so busy the time will fly. Money will be flying in and we can get caught back up. I don’t know how we’ll afford presents this year, but then I say that every year and we always do.
I’m still trying to figure out winter clothes for Thomas and the days are already starting to cool off. My mom said she’d help with that but her second job isn’t doing so well this month so I don’t know how she’ll afford to.
I’m in panic mode.
Dieting and Meds
I don’t know if anyone noticed, but I’ve stopped tracking my weight on this blog. More specifically, I’ve stopped tracking my weight and indeed, weighing myself in general. It got to be more than I could handle.
In all fairness to me, I’m on 4 different meds that have the potential to cause weight gain. And while I don’t think it’s going up, it’s making it impossible for my weight to go down.
I’m not saying I’m going to stop trying. But I am going to stop weighing myself. Getting all excited over 2 pounds lost, even though it doesn’t show in how my clothes fit, just to gain it right back… I have to stop doing that to myself.
So I have.
If I find a diet that works and my clothes actually start fitting different, I’ll go back to tracking it. Lord knows I’m not afraid to show the ups and downs of weight loss.
Even if I was ballooning up out of control, I’d track that too because it shows what meds can do to you.
But right now I’m stuck between 240 and 250 with no change outside of that range, and so tracking it just seems pointless.