It Sucked and Then I Cried: How I Had a Baby, a Breakdown, and a Much Needed Margarita by Heather Armstrong. Heather is the owner and operator of Dooce. She is my personal role model and I strive to be even half as famous as her. The book itself is amazing! She is an increadible writer and a hilarious human being. Don’t just read the book, get to know her site!